Sense of Power and
Powerlessness
*Saumitra
Mohan
During
one’s interactions with members from different walks of life, one comes across
different kinds of people with different kinds of mindset and attitude. Naturally,
all these people have varying conceptions of life. But there definitely is a
predominant idea about what makes a good life and this invariably subsumes
possession of power and pelf. Most of us have this constricted vision about
what constitutes a good and fulfilling life. However, the same is far from the
truth.
Most
of us, holding one or the other positions of power, suffer from a gross
delusion which completely detaches them from the true worth of an ephemeral human
life. Firstly, the so-called situations of power are always relative depending
upon our place in the societal pecking order. In heteronormative patriarchal
societies, a husband may be powerful against his wife, a monarch or autocrat in
a monarchy or autocracy, a company head in his company, an elected head of the
state in a democracy or any person holding such position of importance.
Thus,
any and every person holds some position of influence vis a vis others. The
power exercised could be spatiotemporal. After all, head of a company would
only be important in his own company or till the time he is the head. A
celebrity today may lose her status and charm with time to be replaced by
another as is usually seen in the tinsel world of glamour. A very powerful
politico could soon be rubbing shoulders with the hoi polloi. How people treat
him in such situations depends completely upon one’s conduct while one wielded
a position of influence.
However,
whether we continue to command influence or public adulation even after exiting
power positions depends completely on our conduct when on the high pedestals. Often,
we forget that we are only a visitor to such situations of power which may
change anytime. Time has been the biggest graveyard of all the bumptious and
supercilious people who rubbed people very wrongly while in situations of
power. We forget the eternal truth that everything which belongs to us today
belonged to someone else yesterday and would be in possession of someone else
tomorrow. So, any arrogance for passing prominence or influence may do us in.
Many
among such people, however, servile and obsequious to those high in the
hierarchy. As they say, the real character of a person could only be known by
his conduct towards the weak and underprivileged, and not towards the high and
mighty. They are forced to be at the best of their behaviour in front of the
more powerful, but are vile and vicious to those down the ladder including
subordinates, colleagues, family and friends.
While
there, some of us think that our positions give us the right to mistreat or
humiliate people in weaker power situations without appreciating that, sooner
or later, we would cross over to the other side. When out of power positions,
such people face real crises in life, adjusting to the emergent hard realities
when they suddenly feel unimportant and sulk heavily in solitude. They may have
hoarded money or other means of material comforts, but lead a pitiable life
without many friends or sympathizers.
We conveniently
forget the eternal truth that no one has gone out of this world alive and none
of us shall remain in our respective power situations forever. The wise ones, ergo,
work hard to make hay while the sun shines. They leverage the fleeting power
situations to earn goodwill of their friends, relatives and everyone around
them. Such people consciously expand their circle of goodwill to positively
touch the lives of as many people as possible. Each one of us could all be
useful and helpful to those around us if we so want. If anything, our positive and
helping attitude towards others itself could earn us immense goodwill, thereby
making our lives meaningful.
Most
of the megalomaniac people with convoluted sense of power and self-importance
usually get so engrossed and attached to the impermanent vocations, positions
or situations that they stop adding value to their own life. Immersed in
mundane affairs, they get so alienated that they end up dehumanising themselves
as often reflected in their conduct towards their immediate family members,
friends, colleagues and others coming into their contact. Like a taskmaster,
they keep inventing ways to piss, pester and hassle others around them.
Moved
by negative outlooks and orientations, these people hardly find any time for
indulging in positive and constructive tasks. With suppressed muses and
stressed mind, they are often the reasons for all the pain and mess in the lives
of those they directly or indirectly influence. Doing this, they spoil their Karma by generating negative vibrations
for themselves. That’s why, we should all add and earn as much goodwill and virtues
as possible while on Spaceship Earth, using our momentary power situations. But
most of us remain unconscious to this.
More
often than not, most of us keep running in a maze trying to earn and possess
way beyond our needs. By doing so, we actually spoil our Karma for the sake of our deemed offspring who come with their own
destiny and conduct as per requirements of their own spiritual growth. As such,
we should not be overly exercised over the fripperies of human life. Actually,
we are guarding the wealth or possessions for others while we are here, often
at a huge loss of hurting our own metaphysical growth.
If
these power positions were so important or useful, we would remain here forever
to enjoy them. But they are nothing but a means to the ultimate end of
uplifting our eternal consciousness. All value additions to our eternal
consciousness in this life help us see through bigger challenges of spiritual
growth during our next rebirths. Hence, we ought to conduct ourselves with
discretion and judgement so as to guard the eternal interests of our
enlightened Self. We should give only as much importance to the objective
possessions as is warranted for the growth of our timeless Self.
We
often get the impression of our invincibility or omnipotence through the adulation
and eulogies of those around us. All these people, who have one or the other
axe to grind, treat us like demigods and praise us to the skies. Taking their
words to be true, we actually end up transporting ourselves to the ethereal
world. Many refuse to come down to the earth, with disastrous consequences. How
futile is this misplaced sense of power could be gauged from the fact that we
are often confronted with the hard realities even while in power. After all, a
company or a political head would never be treated with the same importance in
other company or State. Even in one’s own company or State, one may not be
recognized unless one reveals one’s identity or has usual fripperies of power
to mark him out as such.
Against
100 million celestial bodies in our galaxy and there being billions of such
galaxies in the entire cosmos, we are not even a speck in this vast Creation. Our
body itself is nothing but a heap of food and a loan from the Mother Earth. We
can’t take even a speck of dust from this earth after we die. That being so,
why should we not focus on guarding our eternal interests of spiritual learning
and evolution for a better comeback through reincarnation? So, let’s conduct
ourselves with discretion and dignity while we are here.